A Week Unlike Any Other
Three years ago today, in the wee hours of the morning, I came out to my wife. If Christians call the week leading up to Easter “Holy Week”, I would …
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The unraveling of it all
More and more everyday I despise Evangelicalism. It is this ideological disease that causes me to slowly disconnect from what I held tightly to growing up. This isn’t love. …
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What’s my name…..(R-E-S-P-E-C-T)
Welcome to Trans 102. Today we’ll be talking about names and the power it has over our lives. Deadnaming- The intentional act of calling a transgender person by their former …
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Dear Friend
Dear friend, I miss you. Not having you around has made it just a little tougher. I won’t deny it. I’ve been told I shouldn’t dwell on this loss. …
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What if God was one of us versus them.
I donned my flame resistant undies and did my best to pad the C part of the C&E statistic and gathered the family to attend church on Christmas Eve. A …
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HOPE – Will Take you there.
Part II in my FAITH-HOPE-LOVE series. Before my exodus from The Church, I was asked to share on the word Hope. While constructing the video and the words which …
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Music is my glue
As long as I can remember, music was my everything. I lived it. I played it. I consumed it. I sold newspaper subscriptions 6 months in advance just to …
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The Cake is a Lie
“If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat …
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Before I bid farewell
The following was shared to my church board during its February 2016 meeting. Three months prior I was asked to remove myself from the church board after coming out to …
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A tale of two tenses
I know you believe what you do. I respect your passion. But that was before me. I hear the words you send out there in social media. I see your …
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